Ask them to tell you what feels nice and let them know when you are enjoying something. You can also ask if they might prefer something different, or if there is any discomfort. You should definitely avoid having oral sex if either of you has sores around your mouth, vagina, penis or anus. Group 11 Created with Sketch. Group 8 Created with Sketch. If your partner is a man, you might try gliding your fingers over the shaft, treating it like a delicate and treasured item. Leave this field blank.
Using a condom or dental dam a thin, soft plastic that covers the vagina or anus will protect you from most sexually transmitted infections.
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Infections can be passed on through oral sex even if there are no obvious signs or symptoms of the infection such as sores. Most people are very happy to engage with a lover who is so attentive and considerate. Whether or not we admit it, if you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won't enjoy it as much. After all, that's what pleasure is all about. Group 10 Created with Sketch. Email Created with Sketch. But remember to work gently at first!